When it comes to dating, just like anything else in life, what gets measured gets managed.
Or maybe you’re doing well with women but you read about other guys and want to get the results that they have.
Wherever you are, I think it’s important to know what kind of numbers are realistic so that you can manage your expectations accordingly.
When I first started getting serious about my dating in my early 20’s I had no idea what kind of results to expect.
I knew most players in real life weren’t honest about their stats and neither were the guys I was reading online.
At that point in time guys like Mystery were talking about going 10 for 10.
Needless to say that wasn’t how it was playing out for me in real life, especially in online game.Because I wasn’t getting the results I thought other guys were getting, I started believing that maybe I wasn’t as handsome as I’d always thought or maybe my game was whack and I should try memorizing routines like the PUA guys.I started to think that maybe my previous success with women only came from my social status in high school.It wasn’t until I found legit guys like Blackdragon for online game, and Paul Janka for day game, that I started to see what real world metrics looked like.Until then it was “PUAs” claiming a 100% success rate and being able to seduce any girl with the right game.What I want to do in this article is to give you the realistic metrics that I wish I had when I was first getting serious about dating.