Stephen asks: "I am trying to find a 'real' adult dating site. The people on there either do not exist or are trumped up.It seems all that I have come across do not have real/true information... I sent the company an email to complain, but they didn't reply.
Are you looking for an adult dating site that caters to adult encounters or casual sex, that isn't full of scammers or fake profiles?
If that's the case, I'll admit its pretty hard to find.
My first recommendation would be to try Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section; you sign up with them and then decide which of the three sections you want to be a part of (Dating, Relationships or Intimate Encounters).
You can use different handles in each section under the same account too, so no one will be any wiser if you want to advertise for one thing in one place without ruining your chances for something more should it come up.
It's pretty hard for any site these days (especially the big ones) to stop fake profiles and scammers from signing up, but I think I get what you're after.
There are a lot of adult dating sites that don't have a lot of users, or use sneaky marketing tactics like the bait and switch you're referring to.
We've all seen them - the ads show a bevvy of beautiful women in your area, but when you sign up, you realize that the women were just ads that were geographically targeted to your search preferences.
After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly 'ideal': Club Intimate, Fling, Adult Match Doctor, Get It On, and Sexy Ads.
The last one I haven't actually reviewed fully, but the site owners took the time to add a profile on this site.